Sunday, May 29, 2011

Pool Party

Last Saturday, Tyler went to his first pool party, for Noah's 2nd birthday.


Tyler was skeptical of the pool at first. Holding a ball helps.


Tyler soon got comfortable being in the water, and didn't want to get out, even when all the other kids did. Scarlett got back in the water after cake. Somebody thought it would be cute to have the kids wear party hats in the pool. Scarlett wasn't too sure about that.


Tyler wasn't happy about it either.


Both kids promptly removed them. Looks like Tyler inherited my "Glare of Death". Yikes.


What a fun, exhausting day.

The Biscotti Incident

Sunday, May 15, 2011

Li'l Mover and Shaker

Tyler is still figuring out this walking thing. Sometimes it's one step,then a dive, sometimes it's 3 or 4 steps together. On Friday, as Tyson prepared for a Saturday Brew Day, Tyler took an interest in the 5-gallon water jugs Tyson had set in the hallway. I took advantage of his interest and built a small obstacle course out of them. Sure enough, Tyler walked!



Saturday morning was Tyler's final "Li'l Movers and Shakers" class for the season. This was a  motor development class, through Tucson Parks and Rec. Tyler was the youngest in the group, and the only one who wasn't yet walking. In retrospect, I wish I'd put him in the 6-12 month class and let him be the oldest, rather than bumpng him up into the 12-18 month class. (He turned a year old 5 days after the class began.) He had a hard time the first few weeks - he would have preferred to sit and focus on one activity for a long time, but this class changes gears every few minutes. There were tears for the first couple of classes, but smiles and laughter too, and he participated more and more each week. By the 4th class, he was doing almost all the activities, and by the final class, he was a pro.

While I got ready for class, Tyler checked out the balance beam.



The class begins with everyone sitting in a circle, singing songs together. Then the teacher has the parents help the children do a tumbling trick. Today it was headstands and forward rolls. Tyler, however, chose to do his favorite, back flips. Next is a series of races - running across the mat, then bunny hopping across, then flying like an airplane, then a bear walk. Tyler's not a fan of race time right now. Sometimes being the youngest is tough.

After the races, it's a free for all on the obstacle course.




The next obstacle was the bar hang, with the instructor, Miss Gigi (most likely misspelled.) Tyler waited patiently for his turn.



Miss Gigi has been working hard to get Tyler to walk,and always warns him, "Oh-oh, here comes that lady who always makes me work!" (And when she makes a child cry, she turn to the parent and tells the parent how beautiful said child is. While continuing to make the child walk/flip/cartwheel. I like her approach.) Clearly Tyler wasn't minding the work Miss Gigi made him do today.


Tyler's very curious about this tunnel, but not inclined to go through it!


Another teacher worked with Tyler on his forward somersault. He likes backward flips much better.


This video's long and clumsily filmed - Tyler was on the verge of falling off the equipment, so I kept having to grab his shirt and pull him back up. He hasn't figured out how to turn the corner just yet. Miss Gigi had assured me that all the kids figure out that they're supposed to go feet first down the wedge, and asked me to let Tyler figure it out for himself, as opposed to guiding him. Well, Tyler decided to go headfirst instead.


After the obstacle course, the instructors bring out something different to play with each week. This week it was balls and push toys.







The staff always put on the song "It's Time to Clean Up" and the kids help retrieve all the toys and put them a way. Again, Tyler's youth shows - he'll gather the toys, but has difficulty putting them in the box. Or he takes the toys the other kids have put in the box back out. I'm trying to work with him on this at home, and I know when he moves up to the toddler room in daycare, he'll be expected to clean up after himself.

Next comes my favorite part of the class! The parachute! First, the staff dump a bunch of balls in the middle of the parachute, to trick the kids into sitting in the middle.


Then the adults sing "Ring A Round the Rosy" while pulling the parachute, with the kids stuck in the middle. Then we retrieve the children and hold them while flapping the parachute up and down, to make "popcorn" (the balls bouncing up and down on the parachute). Next we lift the parachute over our heads, step under it, and sit on it, to make a bubble. Then we sing "Twinkle Twinkle Little Star" and other songs.





After the children help retrieve all the balls and put them in Ms. Gigi's bag (while learning Spanish at the same time, as she directs them to "pon las pelotas en la bolcita"), the children are asked to sit on color. Another instructor chooses a color, and all the kids on that color are sung to, e.g. "Tyler says farewell, Tyler says farewell, the day is done, we've had some fun, Tyler says farewell."  (Tyler doesn't have a favorite color just yet, and doesn't seem to notice if his name is sung. The other kids just love it, though!)



I'm sad that the class is over for now, but we're signed up to take it again in June. I know Tyler will enjoy the class even more this time - not only because he knows what to expect and will be walking more confidently by then, but also because his friend Leo will be in the class, too! Yay!

Sunday, May 8, 2011

Mother's Day


I've heard so often that infants and toddlers like to work on just one skill at a time, and usually that seems to be true. But over the past two weeks, Tyler's changed pretty quickly in a variety of areas.


Tyler's favorite vocabulary word right now is "Neigh", as in the sound a horse makes. It's high pitched and full of laughter, and doesn't always have an N attached. Then yesterday, as I read a few animal sound books in a row, he worked on "Cock-a-doodle-doo." How do you go from one syllable to five just like that? He's said "Quack" a couple of times, and on the way to work one day this week, suddenly blurted "Yeah!" So now we're working on "Moo" because we want him to say "Mom".

We've reported our difficulties in getting Tyler to eat table food on multiple occasions. Last week we were extremely frustrated with our lack of progress. Tyler would cry the entire time he was in the high chair. We tried a different, fancier high chair, to no avail. Suddenly, this week, the high chair was no longer the enemy, and meal time was actually pleasant. The meal that spurred this change? PF Cheng's meal at home - Mongollian Beef, with red bell peppers, green beans, and rice. This kid has taste.

Now Tyler's enjoying a wide variety of meals, be it the "Elmo" version of spaghettios that he detested just one week ago, slow-cooked roast with vegetables, bread, chicken "weiners", beef, cooked carrots, potatoes...He even tried putting a kibble of Vader's dog food in his mouth, but to my relief, made a face and spit it back out. That's one food I'd rather him not decide to enjoy.

Tyler also learned to drink effectively from a "sippy cup" by himself. Yay!


Tyler has also been rather reluctant to begin walking - when we try to "finger-walk" with him, his legs buckle and he collapses in a heap. When his "Lil Movers and Shakers" teacher tries to get him to walk, he sucks in his stomach and lifts his legs together in a perfect pike position. (Seriously. That takes major stomach muscles. Yet he won't walk???)

But Tuesday morning, while I was dropping him off at daycare, I heard the teacher yelling from the next room, and rushed in to learn he'd just walked from one table to the other in the hopes of getting someone's fruit loops. On Friday at lunch, as the teacher sat on the floor eating spicy cheetos from the bag, Tyler crawled from me to her to beg. He licked one of the cheetos before she could stop him, so she handed it to me. He stood up and walked from her to me to get the cheeto. So then, how could I not let him have it? He smiled triumphantly, cheeto showing from between his teeth. A couple minutes later, red drool emerged from his mouth. Soon after, tears sprang from his eyes and continued until the cook produced a cup of water for him. Guess he won't be eating spicy cheetos again for a while. But he walked! By himself!

So today, on Mother's day, how fitting that he truly walked for the first time, more than 2 steps, more like 4, from Grandma Allaire to me, to Tyson, and back to me? Unlike the other two instances in which he walked without realizing it, today we could almost see the lightbulb go off in his head that he could do this, and that he wanted to do it, and having done it, his decision that it was fun!


What a wonderful Mother's day. Tyler decided to start the day early by waking me at 5am. I discovered Grandpa Keith had left a card for me in our front door. Tyson bought me a beautiful bouquet of flowers, and made a delicious breakfast. We drove to Phoenix, where Tyler explored Grandma Allaire's house - somehow, this was the first time he'd ever been there. He explored the grass in the backyard. We gave Grandma Allaire cards, and she gave me another amazing bouquet of flowers. Tyler and Tyson each gave me a card, too. We ate ribs and corn and bread for lunch, then sat and relaxed together after. And as Tyler practiced his walking skills, he frequently came to step over my legs, into my lap and hug me, or to walk around behind me, put his hands on my shoulders, and press his face into my hair. Then off to crawl all over Tyson and laugh together.

I feel so blessed to have such a wonderful, supportive and loving family.
Happy Mother's Day!